Transform Your Mornings: 10 Tips for a Calm School Routine
- Handley Place Living
- Sep 10
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 8
The Importance of a Smooth Morning Routine
Mornings can be hectic, especially when kids are involved. A smooth morning routine sets the stage for a successful day. It helps everyone feel prepared and reduces stress. I’ve learned that with a little planning and some intentional habits, mornings can be a breeze.
1. Wake Up an Hour Before the Kids
This is my non-negotiable. I give myself one full hour before the kids wake up for coffee, a guilt-free phone scroll, planning my day, and stretching. During that time, I can also take care of the pets, start breakfast or lunches, and still get myself ready. That quiet hour helps me feel centered and calm, which sets the tone for the whole morning.
2. Maximize Every Spare Minute
I build multitasking into my mornings so nothing feels wasted. While the coffee brews, I feed the pets and let the dog out. After I wake the first child, I swap laundry and start a new load so it’s ready to fold when I get home. If the dishwasher wasn’t full the night before, I load it with breakfast dishes before we leave. By the time we’re out the door, I’ve already made progress on the day’s chores without adding extra stress.
3. Prep Lunches the Night Before
The kids pick from my lunch builder sheet the night before. I update the list every week after groceries so they always know what’s available. Morning lunch-packing becomes quick and almost mindless. (Read more about packing lunches here!)
4. Plan Ahead for Breakfast
Breakfast is not a debate in our house. I don’t make three different meals. On Sundays, I prep something that will last through Monday and Tuesday (like muffins, pancakes, or waffles), and I keep a loose plan for the rest of the week. Everyone knows what to expect, and there’s no scrambling in the morning. (Currently loving my pumpkin spice muffins)
5. Uniforms, Backpacks, and Socks Ready to Go
Every night, the kids lay out their clothes and get their backpacks ready. I keep a basket in each closet for uniforms so there’s no digging around in drawers at the last minute. And to solve the daily sock drama, I keep a shared sock basket in the laundry room. Somehow socks are always missing, but having them all in one place means no one is running around frantic before school.
6. Water Bottles and Lunchboxes in the Kitchen After School
As soon as the kids get home, lunchboxes are emptied and water bottles go straight to the kitchen. That way they’re washed, dried, and ready to go the next day. No searching in bedrooms or waking kids early because I can’t find their things.
7. Stagger Wake-Up Times
All three kids need different amounts of time to get ready. Staggering their wake-ups has been a game changer. No one feels rushed, and no one is left waiting around too long. The flow feels calmer for everyone.
8. Limit Screen Time Until 7 AM
Phones don’t unlock until 7. This one change prevents the kids from getting sucked into scrolling when they should be getting ready. It’s a small boundary that makes a huge difference.
9. Reset the Kitchen at Night
I can’t start my day in a messy kitchen. Every evening, the kitchen counters are cleared, wiped down, and the dishwasher is loaded. Waking up to clean counters makes prepping breakfast and lunches smoother and gives me a calmer start. (Link to my Sunday Reset Post)
10. Don’t Leave the Car to Chance
This one might be my biggest sanity-saver. I keep the gas tank full the night before, and in the winter, I start the car early to defrost. There’s nothing worse than piling everyone into a freezing car or realizing the gas light is on while you’re racing to school. I used to tell myself, I’ll get gas in the morning, but it always led to stress.
Bringing It All Together
At the end of the day, it all comes down to planning ahead by making sure uniforms are clean, meals are planned, the coffee is prepped, and the kitchen is reset the night before. These small habits may not seem like much on their own, but stacked together, they create a rhythm that makes mornings smoother, calmer, and far less stressful.
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